youth are really searching for identity
and significance within the larger group
of peers in preparation for taking their
place in society.
For them, the Easter bunny has lost its
mystic lore. With their new-found voices
they are also trying to balance family
conflicts and societal promises with their
realities.
Historically, this identity progression from
family-to-peer group-to-society presented
few problems because family and society
mirrored each other. Also, the adults
understood the journey and ordered their
social traditions to facilitate safe passage
of our youth through this and subsequent
periods of “becoming.”
Fast forward to now!
Today, this tumultuous struggle is
anything but natural, orderly or safe.
Whether down the street or just a tweet
away, the peers are often guided by
different values.
The New Easter Bunny:
Corporations and others, who profit from
their inner conflicts, and from our
community’s maladies, manipulate their
identity-quest into one for material things.
It starts in middle school. By
high school, it has morphed
into a full-scale internal
struggle for identity and voice.
One day you greet the know-
it-all-confident 30 year old!
Next day you see the child
needing cuddling and
direction.
Respond to the wrong one,
and you’ve just set off World
World III right in the living
room, driveway, or mall.
Though it’s a highly emotional
time - to say the least - this
quest is understandable. Our
Betrayal: Sadly, many we charge with
helping our youth - school systems,
social systems, police, etc., don’t value
our families, community or people. They
ignore our highest aspirations and use
this tumultuous period to break youthful
spirits and/or to alienate our youth from
the family, community and our people.
Solution: While we can’t turn back the
hands of time, we can equip them with
the tools and skills to successfully
navigate these rough waters.
Where My Voice Begins (WMVB) is a
youth-based course in 3 formats:
1.
A part of our full-day school
2.
A part of our weekend school
3.
Weekend retreats
It features three essential skills:
•
Emotional literacy and Authenticity
(communication & conflict resolution)
•
The Flow of Recognition (significance)
•
The Dynamics of Modern
Oppression (alienation)
Knowledge is not enough. Our youth
must become skilled users of these tools
to insure safe passage to adult-hood.
Learn more and register @
www.wheremyvoicebegins.org
404.292-9002